Seriously Folks

So I log in today in a rush I needed to post some events and get out of SL, it's my twins Birth day today and i have a lot to get done before their party later.. any way I log into a complaint passed on to me from the GM. The complaint? Was about a designers t-shirt. The person felt is contained objectionable content. Hmm well to some yes it does...but in the end it boils down to this...we are a mature sim therefore you may well see things that offend you. Am I supposed to kick people out of the club for being naked, or wearing objectionable clothing? Or lets look at it from another angle, anyone who has been in SL long enough... who knows anything about clubs knows they are money pits, they take lindens to run.. and the malls attached to clubs bring in a major portion of the income generated to pay tier and events, often it can be touch and go on whats brought in and making said tier. So am I to kick out a vendor because someone didn't like what a t-shirt they are selling says? and if I kick that vendor and their rent is needed to make tier what then? I close the club because again 1 person found the content objectionable? And I tell all the other people what? Sorry this one person didn't like what a vendor was selling so I kicked the vendor out and I couldn't make tier? lol maybe I should give out the name to all the people that would complain too. In the end I cannot please everyone, I gave up on that long ago. I do suggest sending complaints where they belong which is to the designer, not the club or mall owner.

In Light

Ok wow the last comment on my cheating post just .. stunned me... not in a bad way more like a wait... what? way. So I am going to be totally random and post a series of pics.. why? cuz I can :P Imagine if you will Mir at a ski lodge [tries not to laugh too hard, even though I her Mun grew up in Colorado]

1. OMG seriously you want me to what?

2. Skis????


3. No, no I'll just cop a pose blend in look pretty.

4. I am so not gonna ski and ya can't make me!

ok enough silliness, and most likely funny only to me but hey, my blog my silliness

Shape- mine

Skin- Mynerva

Hair -Tatum by Fir.day

Nails/rings Mandala

Outfit - Fluffy by AMD

Boots -Pomski Boots by Kookie

Colors

So I was reading something the other day and it made me think, I know ouch. Any way sometimes the lines of communication are lost... you cannot ask neither can they.. there is no going back to what once was sadly. Anyway this song is kinda how I see them at the moment.

Can you feel it crush you? Does it seem to bring the worst in you out?
There's no running away from these things that hold you down
Do they complicate you because they make you feel like this?
Of all the colors that you've shined this is surely not your best

But you should know these colors that you're shining are...

Surely not the best colors that you shine
Surely not the best colors that you shine

I know you feel alone, yeah, and no one else can figure you out
But don't you ever turn away from the ones that help you down?
Well they'd love to save you. Don't you know they love to see you smile?
But these colors that you've shined are surely not your style

Surely not the best colors that you shine
Surely not the best colors that you shine

I know you're feeling like you're lost
But you should know these colors that you're shinin are
I know you're feeling like you're lost,
You feel you've drifted way too far
Did you know these colors that you're shinin' are

Surely not the best colors that you shine
Surely not the best colors that you shine


Surely not the best..
(I know you're feeling like you're lost)
Colors that you shine..
(but you should know these colors that you're shining are)
Surely not the best..
(I know you're feeling like you're lost you feel you`ve drifted way too far)
Did you know these colors that you're shinin' are..

Dress-League

Boots League

Hair- Truth

Nothing to Say :P

Shape-personal
Hair - Truth -Madaline, Raven
Skin- Mynerva,Pure Envy
Eyes-[kOwP] combo eyes
Necklace -.HOD. Fallen Necklace
Tattoo - TSS,Poison Tattoo
Dress - Sassy Kitty, Spiders Lover Dress
Stockings - *Sheer*
Shoes - Fume', High Keira
Gun - Cleric

Been Awhile

So it's been awhile since i wrote anything down, I tell myself i am gonna then I don't but I am here today, decided i have something I need to get off my chest so to speak.
This may piss some people off though I know many who agree with what I am about to write about,any way here goes...

Married people and SL.... I have never understood nor will I understand... the mind set of some people that having a relationship in SL isn't cheating if you are married in rl. OK, some say rl and sl are separate... well they aren't, not really.. in some way things always cross and mingle.

A relationship in SL mimics a RL one on many levels... and if you are married... you may not be cheating physically but you are cheating emotionally.. at least in my book. I think back to when my husband was alive and I think were he in SL having a relationship with some chick I'd be hurt...and angry.. and I know were it reversed he would feel the same.

I put someone on a pedestal once long ago... they always said they would never have a sl relationship because it was cheating.. and I admired them so for that for having the balls to stick to it, and then one day they fell off that pedestal i had put them on.. was it fair of me to put them there? maybe not, but either way, something along the line changed.. we stopped talking they stopped asking ... I guess maybe you never recover when your hero falls.{ yes I know that sounds dramatic but I know of no other way to express how it feels}

So as much as I hate to say this because i know it will cause some bitching .. ok so the entire post will.. but my thoughts on married people having sl relationships are indeed solely mine and everyone is entitled to their opinion, my answer to it? To do what I call a Daisy and hit the uninstall button, go see if your marriage is worth saving, either it is or it isn't but you probably wont know if your sitting in sl playing "house" with someone else.

VIP

Ok my friend gave me this link and I honestly think everyone should read it
http://lordgreggreg.wordpress.com/2010/08/14/emerald-reassessment/

Then and Now

Ok so I was just kinda thinking snapped a pic... love this chair.. had it a long time. Below is a pose same chair a little over 2 years ago lol.
In case your wondering, Hair-Truth-Boho,Skin-Sawode-Lisa,tan Outfit Delirium-Mir'ari, shoes-N-Core.Nails-Mandala. The chair is from Melino Style

Ok so this was then...7-12-08 seems a life time ago and my how the avi has changed

My Blog

Blogs are what? A place people can write what they feel like writing. It is a virtual diary of sorts. Do I vent a lot in mine? mhm I do.. why? better here than yelling at people. I am reminded of something someone once told me ages ago... doesn't matter how much good you do, no one will ever remember it, they will instead remember only the worst moments. This is partly true and partly not, I don't completely agree nor disagree, instead I see it as a situational thing.
People will always judge, they judge you by the clothes you wear, the people you know, the places you hang out what have you, can you change it? sure you could but if you spent all your time changing things so people thought better of you then really are you still you? I know people in SL that others think the worst of... but ya know what? some of them I actually know better and I find that they are indeed not the person people paint them to be, do they do things to encourage the judgements... yep they do, and yet I know who and what they are.... and I allow them more space or rope than I would others. And no lol I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about those in my SL that I have had experiences with, the ones who....for example didn't tell me the whole truth then came back and admitted it... forgive? sure.. forget? not so much.. move forward? mhm we have....we all have our less than shining moments... some of us have more than others but then again if we were all perfect what fun would life or sl for that matter be?
Blogs.. you have the right to read or not read... don't like mine? don't read it... I have some i enjoy, others I just don't bother with. If I wanted a cookie cutter blog about fashion and what not then I guess I'd do that, actually I have done a bit of that. Point is it's a free Internet...virtual world, world what have you so read or don't doesn't much matter to me.

In the end

In the end the comment makes ever so much more sense....the writer states what she "knows OF me" mhm so I am to assume then she knows what she had heard... the rumors the gossip, some true, most not, it's all good, what ever makes ya feel better about yourself. Personal attack? hardly...simply judgements passed by a person who doesn't bother to learn facts. Cant say I've never done it myself, I think we all have.

Comments

Ever wonder why people post comments insulting you then do so with out leaving a name? lol yeah right move along.

Win some Lose Some

I don't really know why I titled this post that , I guess it's just what popped in my head. Many things have occurred as of late that make me question why I even bother with SL. At the moment it isn't much fun, it's more of a headache really. People I thought of as friends, seem to have become distant. The usual BS happens, like a guy telling me my avi is "not bad" only to watch him hook up with a partnered chick, ok so hmm my avi would look better if I was partnered? wow shallow seriously.
Bridges have been burned, most beyond repair, and to be honest I'm not so sure I have it in me any more to even try.
Staff who are trying very hard to "take me down" as it were, but what they don't realize is that in trying to take me down, they are doing 2 things... 1, they are perpetuating drama, which is of course against our rules, but because it's been about me I haven't enacted the suspension rules, and 2, by doing what they are doing they are in fact destroying the club they profess to love so much.
What becomes apparent here is that I need to step back and live my RL, because in the end I simply refuse to play these games any more.

To Some of you

I said it on air today and I'll say it there.. thank you to everyone that has
made SR a great place I appreciate you, but especially to those who refuse to play the "whisper" game, who do not come to play the drama game or the he said she said games, those that truely come because you enjoy the music and the people, 3> to you I admire those that rise above it all and simply enjoy.

On To The Next

ok so i spoke of drama... and wow here we are supposedly all adult... mhm hey i made a mistake I admit it, but wow the childish games never stop....new "friends" icy lil circles... no hellos.. tippig all the staff but one.. really people grow up seriously get over it and move the hell on. If I carried grudges for all the shit people did to me in SL hell I'd never speak to anyone. To err is human.. to forgive? Divine. Next time your behaving like a spoiled 2 year old stop and recall that line, might help you see past your petty shit.

And The Amusement Never Ends

Ah yes the wonderful fickle world of SL... one day they love you 2 days later they are partnered to... ohhh a club manager and professing their true love.. oh and wait it gets better dedicating the same tired ass song to them they did to you... I know right? -shakes head- will people never cease to amaze me.

And So It Goes

So it's been a crappy week or so in my SL. Some of it self induced, some not.
Not in the mood to whine just to vent it and be done with it.
So first enter into my SL a guy mhm always a guy right? So guy #1 is all mysterious right.... new so you knew he was a alt, and something in my head said whoa you know this person, and it turned out I did....so I did a stupid thing i used an example to make a point and in doing so I said something i should not have said... mhm I was wrong and I know this, and it is a cross I will bear for the rest of my days. Any way... the guy when i found out who he was.. and the lies he told... i was angry oh yes I was pissed.....and I talked to someone.. well that someone told someone and mhm he got caught, guess maybe i spoiled some of his plans who knows... maybe he needed to get caught. So he sent a log to someone of the thing I had no business saying.. mhm couldn't have seen that one coming... how "brotherly" like of him to show that to the person... somehow I don't think he had them at heart but hey that's my thoughts on it. so I pay the price for that, and I admit I did wrong.
So on to guy #2 mhm I admit I jumped too fast I shared things with him that in retrospect I shouldn't have but this man was so freaking suspicious... always questioning who i was talking to and so on, so i would show him just to get past it. So now he too shared a log of the 1st incident.. wow just wow go figure. There have been threats... over voice, in I'm... and seriously all I want is for him to just go away and leave me alone. Can I not have a quiet SL with out liars and people intent on doing me harm? Seriously people I am human here, and attacking me is getting really really old... Go away just go live your SL leave me out of it. Trust me lesson learned here, I wont be telling anyone shit ever again. If that makes people think I'm even more of a snob well so be it. It is what it has to be I guess.

And So It Goes...

So awhile back I decided i would start doing employees of the month, 3 to be exact, host dancer and dj..now... it's true I did not allow the managers to help, yes sometimes they gave me opinions but in the end I chose... why? because I did it not for a popularity contest... I did it as my way of trying to make everyone feel special.. apparently that was a bad thing to do. I didn't play favorites though I did start out giving the spots to the managers, why? cuz they work hard, harder than some realize. In time I would have covered everyone, I was working on it, and honestly the lindens i gave them each month, 500 each, not a huge amount but that was 1500L a month out of my pocket, not the clubs. So I guess it was a mistake, I guess people felt i was playing favorites, I'm going to guess those that bitched were those that hadn't been picked yet, and perhaps a ex manager or two who felt the need to vent. Any way thanks to those that complained and bitched I ended it, sadly I wont get to meet that goal of making everyone special, July will be the last month for the EOM's.

Drama Mama's

So I get an I'm today.. telling me someone showed up at another club they were working at and yelled some nonsense in chat that I had been given a piece of a&& for my birthday yesterday. OK first I got angry especially in light of being told it was one of my SR staff, then at the fact that it hurt someone, not me, but someone else. Seriously people...1 these are pixels .. lol a piece of a**? wow someone neglected to tell me cuz i missed out. But more importantly those people that do crap like this.... need to remember one thing..... karma is a bitch, your messing with real people behind those monitors and I'm guessing were someone to do something similar to you, you'd cry to the heavens about the unfairness of it all. Seriously people are your own SL's and maybe RL's so boring and empty that you feel the need to attempt to cause trouble in other's?
I should probably be insulted that anyone thinks i have to have it given to me lol I should, but instead I find it amusing that someone felt the need to talk about me in another club... at least I'm a legend in some one's mind right? Any way that's my rant today lol keep rocking peeps and have a good one!

Too Fing funny

ok so I have to add this

[16:20] Mirari Cheney: he got fired from that club.
[16:20] Mirari Cheney: because hes partnered to me
[16:20] Mirari Cheney: then
[16:20] Mirari Cheney: they add to their rules to cover their asses
[16:21] Jadyn Violet: what does the rule say? you cant be a DJ here if you are partnered to Mirari Cheney?
[16:21] Jadyn Violet: look how famous you are :)
[16:22] Mirari Cheney: shakes head
[16:22] Jadyn Violet: it's the mirari cheney clause LOLLL
[16:22] Mirari Cheney: lol can i blog that?
[16:22] Jadyn Violet: yes :)
[16:22] Jadyn Violet: course

Seriously People

So today my partner.... gets fired from the club he dj'd at. a club he enjoyed djing at.... true I have only been there once and only because he asked me. Now... he was fired from there, why? well he was told point blank because he was partnered to me.... amazing seriously amazing.... like what do they think? I have some of their staff that works at my club and vice versa, I dont bad mouth them, I dont require my staff not work else where, I never had any issues with that club, I do now though. I guess i should start banning all their staff that hangs out at my club, I suppose I should begin to remove my staff that works at their club, but to be honest I cannot be arsed to act like them. Not hiring someone because they manage another club or own one is 1 thing discriminating because they are partnered to a club owner? seriously how small minded can you be? so it was done they say to "protect" them lol like um from what? do they honestly think i have nothing better to do than worry about them? Please people get over your selves, no club no club owner is so freaking special that they are better than or above anyone else. Wouldnt we all be better people if we all subscribed to the live and let live.
Their rules state you cannot be a partner in another club... ok so now I am the club? again bs absolute bs... he is not partnered to the damn club people he is involved with me, he takes no part in running SR, none..... nor will he, cuz I dont mix my business with my personal. Yeah Im done and Im over this just goes to show you can be nice you can mind your own but people gotta sprout bs and destroy because they are small minded.

Bragging Rights

So I took the time to contact this person as one owner to another.... because I had questions about their set up and being as we were allowing a tribute band{ sorry something i find totally silly} into SR for the first time... you bet I had some concerns about stage size and what not... and what do I get but the owners assistant responding to me... hrm well had I wanted to speak to her I would have imd her or had my GM handle it but no I chose to try and speak to the owner... well needless to say I was a tad pissed off at his apparent better than thou attitude and said so...seriously, wouldn't most people be offended at being given the brush off? And what did I get in return? -chuckles- a note card full of condescending crap about his company and how he's so famous in rl and what hes done and blah blah blah apparently I'm guessing he thinks he is the only one with a music industry background.It's funny he accused me of being the very same thing as he was by not taking the time to reply, pot call the kettle black much? whats sadder yet is he seems to be so full of himself and all that he does that he wont even see that he in fact started the holier than though contest by not responding in the 1st place. I'm sure his assisstant is a very nice person however again she isn't who I spoke to, it's called common courtesy, he accused me of lacking it when he himself lacked it in abundance in the 1st place...all I did was return exactly what he dished out. It's all good.. some of us feel the need to brag about such shit, some don't, personally I appreciate those that don't cuz in truth... who you know and who you blow in rl don't mean shit to me. Been there, done it, read the book, skipped the movie, and definitely lived it. As usual will I tell you who in this post? nah I'm far far beyond that. Mute is a wonderful thing isn't it?

A song can say so much

Candlebox - Far Behind

awesome older song, my current fav for many reasons, give it a listen if you havent

Nothing Much To Say

Not much to say? Wow I know your thinking holy chit Mir saying nothing here? LOL yep i have no gripes no bitches nor any pics to show off at the moment... what I do have is a post from someone elses blog to link I was told to go look by another.. and honestly i was rather blown away when i read it.. why? well it was odd to read about a situation from someone elses perspective.. unbiased I believe... and well yah she said it all so well.

http://crimson-flow.blogspot.com/2010/03/118365.html

About those bots....

I've been thinking a lot about them I don't know why most everyone knows my thoughts on them....if you have to use them to make your club look busier than it is and make yourself feel like you've "won" something then hey I guess... more power to ya. At least I know for a fact that SR has never used bots of any sort to achieve traffic. Though I do have to give a "hats off" to the use of in club bots.... wow getting sneaky aren't they? S'ok LL will find them out eventually, I only wish they'd make a fine or something for it. So recap here.. Bots= bad... bots= lying to yourself and your guests.. bots just suck indeed they do... though using them as models for clothing stores is actually a pretty darn awesome idea!