Next up would be Prad.... so long ago it seems lol noobs that we were... partner more than once... usually just to fill up a box.. the last time I'm pretty sure we were never even on the same sim lol. I taught you bad English, you taught me to be somewhat patient though that still needs work, you got me started on covers. Photos galore.. usually with you telling me my avi suited male poses, and we wonder why everyone thinks your gay. After all these years even though we don't talk often I still think your pretty amazing, and most definitely always amusing. You go under the good memory file for all the fun we had.
So I decided to steal a idea from Ley's.... I am going to start working on mentioning people and why they are memorable in my sl and yes even sometimes my rl, no, this isn't going to be a bash fest, though some taught me things in perhaps a not so great way :)
So let me start this with someone who is no longer in SL but was my 1st bestest buddy in sl.
Daisy-You taught me so much, you drug me along on a hell of a ride, I miss the fun we used to have, the crazy things we would find to get up to in game. I miss hearing you dj, even if you sounded like a 15 year old lol.
I thank you for teaching me many things, to trust, to be the bad guy and know that even if people never get that it was indeed a act for the most part, that's ok, I did what I was asked to do, maybe too well but meh. When you left for personal reasons, it felt like my heart was breaking, and indeed a light went out of my SL as it did many others. For a time my SL was a better place thanks to you :) You taught me to trust when I didn't, and to be brave enough to let my hair down now and then.
People never cease to amaze, amuse and even disappoint me. I need to remind myself to turn the sympathy off. Some people just cannot be helped, or saved perhaps or hell who knows, all I know, is I give up.
Amazes me the balls on some people, IMing and wishing me a happy Valentine's Day, saying they hope I'm ok. LOL funny thing, about that they didn't give a shit before that, lied to me before that, and yet now they want to play nice? Just amazes me, it truly does, then again I guess it goes back to those who lie so much they dont even know what the difference is between truth and lies.
So I have noticed a huge amount of people doing this in SL it happens in RL too, but more so in a virtual world I think that allows us all to be someone else if we so wish. So girl meets guy and little by little girl becomes all the things guy likes.... if he is married in rl all the better, she becomes that ear he doesn't have, she becomes more understanding than the rl wife, she makes herself available at the drop of a hat to be there to listen and commiserate. She begins to like all the things he likes, music, clothes, movies, even real time past times such as bowling or fishing. Yes guys do it too though not as much that I have seen. Here's the thing, once you have given up being who you are then exactly just that who the hell are you? It's no different than trying to change someone, if you change them then they are no longer the person you first liked are they? Yeah I don't get it but then I am stubborn as hell and would rather be myself, saves time trying to remember which lies you told to who.
So, this is still about the last post.. seriously lets talk misplaced blame here, I have my own mind, I am a big girl and can think for myself, my thoughts on this and the people behind it have nothing to do with being anyones friend, the thoughts were there way back before I even knew them back when one of the "misguided"couple actually felt much the same, or said he did perhaps he was full of shit even back then I don't know any more, once the lies sink in you just no longer believe much. Any way just had to say that :)
yep seems I keep coming back to this topic probably because it happens far more than it should. So guy and girl, friends for years in SL, supposed friends of family and such in rl, both married, both profess to love and adore their rl spouses and hrm, now they or at least one admits to loving the sl guy as much as the rl one, what I wonder is do the RL counterparts know? Do they actually know and understand that their spouse has a "spouse" in a virtual world?
I mean Locke recently acquired a RL GF and as hard as it was to do I had to hit the departner button, why? In my heart of hearts it is cheating, and even though he was willing to remain partnered, I just wouldn't feel right. So we remain friends we share a parcel of land and roos and call it good.
All I can say is at least I can live with myself.