Seriously Folks

So I log in today in a rush I needed to post some events and get out of SL, it's my twins Birth day today and i have a lot to get done before their party later.. any way I log into a complaint passed on to me from the GM. The complaint? Was about a designers t-shirt. The person felt is contained objectionable content. Hmm well to some yes it does...but in the end it boils down to this...we are a mature sim therefore you may well see things that offend you. Am I supposed to kick people out of the club for being naked, or wearing objectionable clothing? Or lets look at it from another angle, anyone who has been in SL long enough... who knows anything about clubs knows they are money pits, they take lindens to run.. and the malls attached to clubs bring in a major portion of the income generated to pay tier and events, often it can be touch and go on whats brought in and making said tier. So am I to kick out a vendor because someone didn't like what a t-shirt they are selling says? and if I kick that vendor and their rent is needed to make tier what then? I close the club because again 1 person found the content objectionable? And I tell all the other people what? Sorry this one person didn't like what a vendor was selling so I kicked the vendor out and I couldn't make tier? lol maybe I should give out the name to all the people that would complain too. In the end I cannot please everyone, I gave up on that long ago. I do suggest sending complaints where they belong which is to the designer, not the club or mall owner.

In Light

Ok wow the last comment on my cheating post just .. stunned me... not in a bad way more like a wait... what? way. So I am going to be totally random and post a series of pics.. why? cuz I can :P Imagine if you will Mir at a ski lodge [tries not to laugh too hard, even though I her Mun grew up in Colorado]

1. OMG seriously you want me to what?

2. Skis????


3. No, no I'll just cop a pose blend in look pretty.

4. I am so not gonna ski and ya can't make me!

ok enough silliness, and most likely funny only to me but hey, my blog my silliness

Shape- mine

Skin- Mynerva

Hair -Tatum by Fir.day

Nails/rings Mandala

Outfit - Fluffy by AMD

Boots -Pomski Boots by Kookie

Colors

So I was reading something the other day and it made me think, I know ouch. Any way sometimes the lines of communication are lost... you cannot ask neither can they.. there is no going back to what once was sadly. Anyway this song is kinda how I see them at the moment.

Can you feel it crush you? Does it seem to bring the worst in you out?
There's no running away from these things that hold you down
Do they complicate you because they make you feel like this?
Of all the colors that you've shined this is surely not your best

But you should know these colors that you're shining are...

Surely not the best colors that you shine
Surely not the best colors that you shine

I know you feel alone, yeah, and no one else can figure you out
But don't you ever turn away from the ones that help you down?
Well they'd love to save you. Don't you know they love to see you smile?
But these colors that you've shined are surely not your style

Surely not the best colors that you shine
Surely not the best colors that you shine

I know you're feeling like you're lost
But you should know these colors that you're shinin are
I know you're feeling like you're lost,
You feel you've drifted way too far
Did you know these colors that you're shinin' are

Surely not the best colors that you shine
Surely not the best colors that you shine


Surely not the best..
(I know you're feeling like you're lost)
Colors that you shine..
(but you should know these colors that you're shining are)
Surely not the best..
(I know you're feeling like you're lost you feel you`ve drifted way too far)
Did you know these colors that you're shinin' are..

Dress-League

Boots League

Hair- Truth

Nothing to Say :P

Shape-personal
Hair - Truth -Madaline, Raven
Skin- Mynerva,Pure Envy
Eyes-[kOwP] combo eyes
Necklace -.HOD. Fallen Necklace
Tattoo - TSS,Poison Tattoo
Dress - Sassy Kitty, Spiders Lover Dress
Stockings - *Sheer*
Shoes - Fume', High Keira
Gun - Cleric

Been Awhile

So it's been awhile since i wrote anything down, I tell myself i am gonna then I don't but I am here today, decided i have something I need to get off my chest so to speak.
This may piss some people off though I know many who agree with what I am about to write about,any way here goes...

Married people and SL.... I have never understood nor will I understand... the mind set of some people that having a relationship in SL isn't cheating if you are married in rl. OK, some say rl and sl are separate... well they aren't, not really.. in some way things always cross and mingle.

A relationship in SL mimics a RL one on many levels... and if you are married... you may not be cheating physically but you are cheating emotionally.. at least in my book. I think back to when my husband was alive and I think were he in SL having a relationship with some chick I'd be hurt...and angry.. and I know were it reversed he would feel the same.

I put someone on a pedestal once long ago... they always said they would never have a sl relationship because it was cheating.. and I admired them so for that for having the balls to stick to it, and then one day they fell off that pedestal i had put them on.. was it fair of me to put them there? maybe not, but either way, something along the line changed.. we stopped talking they stopped asking ... I guess maybe you never recover when your hero falls.{ yes I know that sounds dramatic but I know of no other way to express how it feels}

So as much as I hate to say this because i know it will cause some bitching .. ok so the entire post will.. but my thoughts on married people having sl relationships are indeed solely mine and everyone is entitled to their opinion, my answer to it? To do what I call a Daisy and hit the uninstall button, go see if your marriage is worth saving, either it is or it isn't but you probably wont know if your sitting in sl playing "house" with someone else.