*Yi*

Yi.. means Gift... mhm  every day is a gift...every breath one takes....just everything. Sometimes it doesn't seem like it, but it is. any way that's enough of me getting all  silly I wanted to show off Yi.. my Kabuki 'roo.. a gift from Locke :)  She is purdy! she is the white one the lower one well that's my Emporer.. Elvis.. - grin- mhm Elvis is alive and well and living as a Meeroo on mah sim!

I Wish

So I was reading a friends blog .. she recently lost her father and  the pain for her is still raw , like a wound, fresh, trying to scab over and heal but you move and  there it goes again.  I wish I had the magic words for her, fact is I don't, no one does, sure I could say look Momma, I'm a old pro at this.. lost my 2nd born daughter, lost my Mother, my father, my husband, his parents, my grandparents, but fact is, everyone has to go through it themselves, everyone has to deal, to experience the pain, the emotions all of it.  I can offer my hand, my shoulder, my ear to be there when she needs to share, yes that I can do.  But those steps, much like the first steps a child takes are ones she must take in her own way, her own time.  It's a helpless feeling sometimes, wishing you could make things better when you cant, knowing you have to let them go through this and just be there.  I can say .. yes, though you may not believe it at this moment, there is a light at the end of this tunnel, one that will shine again, when your ready.  There will come a day, slowly when you smile more than cry.  When the memories hurt less.  Be patient with yourself, don't be  too hard on yourself.  Allow yourself to remember, to work through those memories.  And remember I am always here, and always willing to listen.

Onward and up.. er somewhere

So I have decided no more angry posts I'm so over it all... on to happy things fun things..  Roos? yup we haz them and we enjoy them.  I noted in Guen's blog she has been involved in some new and exciting things and I am happy for her, always good to see people further their SL work :) Way to go Guen! Kudos are usually in short supply so well done and congratz. I have not posted here much been  posting in the other  one I made which is simply clothes ... yes me and clothing in sl a long term love affair.  I hope to get out and explore a bit more now that things are settling down into a nice quiet place.  That is if I can drag Mr. Procrastination away from the roos and off the sim lol.

I don't Care

I know negative sounding title , but in truth it is more me saying, hey people, I don't give a  damn any more about who djs where who's doing what with whom or where.. seriously live and let live, I spent so much time giving multitudes of  chances to people who did nothing but treat me like shit behind my back, and now... I'd just appreciate being left alone.  I am content, happy, and  seriously that's what every one's SL should be.. happy and fun yes?  Friends? well if you really are one then by all means  holler, drop an im ... you might be surprised how much  people can change when not faced with the endless bs they were before. :)  On ward and upward yes?

And So

Someone said i should do a fashion blog.. ok well that's a great idea except everyone and their brother does one, and although I tend to go buy the latest items offered from my favorite designers, I usually don't wear them immediately, yep I am slow. But I started one anyway so.. all daily outfits will be there from now on be prepared for older stuff lol. Link is in my list to the side :P

Part 2

Today is about the dress.... The dress took me a long time to find one I like and even at the end I was torn between 2 styles from the same designer, but given the setting of the wedding I chose the one that best fit. .I enlisted the help of Guenevere DeCuir to make a tatt that fit the feel of the dress, given the the feel of India to it she suggested a Henna wedding tatt, and that is what she made including a bindi, it is an amazing tatt, very delicate, it fit the dress perfectly. The rest were bits and oieces picked up here and there to go with the over all outdoors feel. A huge thanks to Guen for completing the dress :)






Hair - Truth- Nicola
Skin- ~Mynerva-Kia,Apricot
Flower hair wreath - +FS+ Flower Vine Set
Ears - .:DD:. - Elf Ears-Roses-White tipped
Dress - MiaMai Wedding Collection - Arcadia
Tatt - .:Coll:. - specially made for me by Guen :)
Bare Feet - Similar
Bouquest - {not shown -sorry} - ::Phenix:: Lily and Roses Lg - Off white
Nails - Mandala - Nail Pallette 2 /short

Setting Up

So I did something I swore I would never do, get SL married. Even in SL weddings are work, either you hire someone and pay a ton of lindens or, you do it yourself. Personally doing it ourselves seemed much more personal, and I think made the day a little more special.
So with the help of old friend Casper priestman who provided the land with 6k prims to spare lol I managed to set up and use less than 1k prims. Any way this post IM just gonna include some pics of the set up, why? cuz I want to! In the end it was a fun evening shared by some of our oldest friends in SL, Dont worry I will post more later :P

{What Next} - Chairs and tables,lanterns on the tables,lights along dance floor,"alter" [these are great weathered wood look and copy!]

~*Forest Floor*~ flowers, trees

Meant To Be- Princess wedding cake

Weddings By Nienna - wedding drink table { lol had to have vodka for UC!}

Fairy Tales Wedding Supplies - Gift Table