Part 2

Today is about the dress.... The dress took me a long time to find one I like and even at the end I was torn between 2 styles from the same designer, but given the setting of the wedding I chose the one that best fit. .I enlisted the help of Guenevere DeCuir to make a tatt that fit the feel of the dress, given the the feel of India to it she suggested a Henna wedding tatt, and that is what she made including a bindi, it is an amazing tatt, very delicate, it fit the dress perfectly. The rest were bits and oieces picked up here and there to go with the over all outdoors feel. A huge thanks to Guen for completing the dress :)






Hair - Truth- Nicola
Skin- ~Mynerva-Kia,Apricot
Flower hair wreath - +FS+ Flower Vine Set
Ears - .:DD:. - Elf Ears-Roses-White tipped
Dress - MiaMai Wedding Collection - Arcadia
Tatt - .:Coll:. - specially made for me by Guen :)
Bare Feet - Similar
Bouquest - {not shown -sorry} - ::Phenix:: Lily and Roses Lg - Off white
Nails - Mandala - Nail Pallette 2 /short

Setting Up

So I did something I swore I would never do, get SL married. Even in SL weddings are work, either you hire someone and pay a ton of lindens or, you do it yourself. Personally doing it ourselves seemed much more personal, and I think made the day a little more special.
So with the help of old friend Casper priestman who provided the land with 6k prims to spare lol I managed to set up and use less than 1k prims. Any way this post IM just gonna include some pics of the set up, why? cuz I want to! In the end it was a fun evening shared by some of our oldest friends in SL, Dont worry I will post more later :P

{What Next} - Chairs and tables,lanterns on the tables,lights along dance floor,"alter" [these are great weathered wood look and copy!]

~*Forest Floor*~ flowers, trees

Meant To Be- Princess wedding cake

Weddings By Nienna - wedding drink table { lol had to have vodka for UC!}

Fairy Tales Wedding Supplies - Gift Table

Hmmm, just hmmm

So standing around with Locke, the roos and a couple alts... lol mhm we are really exciting people, anywho thought i would blog the outfit cuz I can and eh what else do I have to do between petting the roos, playing TE and exploring sl. yes, life is good.

Hair- Lelutka - Brigitte

skin- Mynerva, Kia,sepia

outfit- Razorblade Jacket- I wish on pink stars set leggings with micro skirt and worn tube top 2 [pink rules]

Shoes - Mstyle Rivea Pumps Magenta
Nails-Mandala- kabuki pink of course

Onward

yep moving on :P

Hair - Truth-Miku, Burgundy

Skin - ~Mynerva~ Kia Sepia

Makeup -_Damned_ catseye makeup

Tattoo - {Glue Ink} Pretty Princess, and Glue Ink Bow

Lashes - AMD Ultimate Lashes feathered

Collar - Red Mint 03

Dress- Sn@tch Milla net Shirt Army with panties

Belt - The Abyss FM_NAU Combat belt

Cuffs - Ha! O-Ring Cuffs - black

Nails- Mandala Milky way Rings and nails gaga black

shoes- J's platform pumps , black

Time To Say Goodnight

So, I have passed the proverbial torch... so many reasons, so many years of being bitched at and about, people who have no clue how stressful it can be keeping a place like that going. In the end the choice I made... was partially the right one, partially not, Daisy would be livid, I'm sure, but I guess it cannot be helped, it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth as well, but whats done is done, time to move on. I have learned who my friends who and who they aren't through this, of that I am amazed, people I wouldn't have expected to IM and offer kind words, and offers of this or that, those who I thought were friends who couldn't be bothered to IM because apparently they were too busy tripping over themselves to suck up to the new owner. At any rate at least I know right? I am walking away completely, I cannot bear to even be there, I just cant, my reasons are many and my own. To those of you who helped make SR awesome, thank you, and I hope you continue to visit and make it amazing still. SR is no longer my home, but it still has a place in my heart.

Thoughts

Ok so I've been thinking a lot last couple days and I feel the need to just sit down and type this out, it is about the one thing in SL that just absolutely baffles me... So, a rl married couple, been together a good number of years, are suddenly experiencing some issues. True I dont know all of it, but the things I do know are this, one of them had SL partnerships to others, one has not that I know of. Suddenly that one who hasn't, meets a 23 year old girl yep I call a 23 year old a girl, they aren't that mature yet no matter how you slice it. So, suddenly there is drama going on the partner who met this lil chick is suddenly ending his rl marriage and so on. Now, maybe the other party is jealous, perhaps too jealous, and maybe one could say whats good for one should be good for the other. Here in lies my issue.... is some lil girl who hasn't a clue about how relationships work worth giving up a long standing marriage? Does the one who has had partners in SL have a right to even be upset? I don't know ... I guess this all goes back to what I have said all along.. Married people have no business fooling around in SL... someone always gets hurt. Marriages can be ruined, children upset, you name it, it can happen. This saddens me, and strengthens my beliefs on the married in RL = single in SL.