People never cease to amaze, amuse and even disappoint me. I need to remind myself to turn the sympathy off. Some people just cannot be helped, or saved perhaps or hell who knows, all I know, is I give up.
Amazes me the balls on some people, IMing and wishing me a happy Valentine's Day, saying they hope I'm ok. LOL funny thing, about that they didn't give a shit before that, lied to me before that, and yet now they want to play nice? Just amazes me, it truly does, then again I guess it goes back to those who lie so much they dont even know what the difference is between truth and lies.
So I have noticed a huge amount of people doing this in SL it happens in RL too, but more so in a virtual world I think that allows us all to be someone else if we so wish. So girl meets guy and little by little girl becomes all the things guy likes.... if he is married in rl all the better, she becomes that ear he doesn't have, she becomes more understanding than the rl wife, she makes herself available at the drop of a hat to be there to listen and commiserate. She begins to like all the things he likes, music, clothes, movies, even real time past times such as bowling or fishing. Yes guys do it too though not as much that I have seen. Here's the thing, once you have given up being who you are then exactly just that who the hell are you? It's no different than trying to change someone, if you change them then they are no longer the person you first liked are they? Yeah I don't get it but then I am stubborn as hell and would rather be myself, saves time trying to remember which lies you told to who.